Thanks Cosette Ubik, funnily enough, I am aware of the fact. Actually some research into brain patterns suggests that romantic love is an addiction.
And I admit I am addicted to some aspects of this man being in my life.
Without getting into all the details of our breakup, we both deeply care for each other, we never actually had any real fights (maybe two or three, including this very last one) and they got resolved quite quickly.
So my questioning is of the boundaries that I set for myself, their origin, and would I be interested in reevaluating them.
Writing this article was so helpful.
So was responding to the comments.
So thanks again Cosette Ubik!