My Partner Just Broke up With Me for the 4th Time in 2 Months.

Note to self: do not date someone with early childhood trauma.

Maya Melamed
6 min readJan 18, 2022
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How do I even start another article about a broken heart?

Geez, I was hoping for a happy ending for this one.

But perhaps I better start from the beginning.

Why did I call him partner if we’ve only been together for 8 months?

That’s a good question, and the answer can demonstrate how naive I still am when it comes to falling in love.

Maybe it’s because we made plans for growing older together.

Maybe it’s because the first 6 months were intensely amazing — emotionally and physically, and it felt like we were made for each other.

It was a marvelous honeymoon phase full of commitments and promises.

We talked about the challenges we might face when merging our lives into a joint future and how we could overcome them.

We were an awesome team.

And we leaned towards each other when the odd disagreement occurred, feeling more connected and united as a result.

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