I think this is a huge one.
Especially in couples where communication about sex is non-existent.
As a lover, my partner will seduce me, lure me, excite me. As a mate, my partner will assume we should be having sex and make no effort to make me want him.
And BTW, men who are not interested in sex in a long-term relationship is probably as common as women who are not interested. But that’s a topic for another article.
Thanks, Elle Beau ❇︎, for your insightful article.