Hey Christopher, I’m not sure what you’re actually asking. If you ask for my opinion about BDSM, I think when done with respect and with clear boundaries, many people enjoy it. Why or how is irrelevant as long as everyone is having a good time. And specifically with power play, many people have issues of “letting go” when having sex, and BDSM is a game that pretty much forces them to let go — and thus truly and fully lose themselves in ecstasy.