First, there were mountains and rivers. Then, the mountains were not mountains and the rivers were not rivers anymore. Now, the mountains are mountains and rivers are rivers again. — Zen Master Qingyuan Weixin Funnily enough, it’s the way my sex life panned out that helped me finally figure out…

YOU ARE ALWAYS LOVED, NO MATTER WHAT. — It’s Valentine’s today, and I wanted to remind you that, Regardless if you’re in a relationship, or if you’re single, or if “it’s complicated” or whatnot, Regardless of your current relationship — if it’s pretty awesome or maybe going through a rough phase right now - YOU ARE ALWAYS LOVED, NO MATTER WHAT. Even if you don’t…

Let’s be clear: people who enjoy a thriving, satisfying, fulfilling sex life — talk about sex ongoingly. It’s not about asking the dreaded “was it as good for you as it was for me?”. It’s an approach in which talking about sex is fully on the table. …

Regardless of whether you see Valentine’s as a special romantic holiday or as commercial exploitation by profit-gaining-focused marketers, it is as good an opportunity as any to lean in to your partner and show them how much you care for them. And although flowers and a card can always be…

Note to self: do not date someone with early childhood trauma. — How do I even start another article about a broken heart? Geez, I was hoping for a happy ending for this one. But perhaps I better start from the beginning. Why did I call him partner if we’ve only been together for 8 months? That’s a good question, and the answer can demonstrate how naive I still am when it comes to falling in…

Why don’t they just ask us? — If you read my article about how to get men to do what you want in bed, you might be left wondering why do we even need to do that? Why is it our responsibility to teach and explain? This is exactly what one of my frustrated readers asked me…

Or: you don’t have to rock your partner’s world to give them an unforgettable sexual experience. — Your common sexual advice article will give you mind-blowing techniques to give your partner the most exciting sexual experience of their lives. You will probably read how to give them so much pleasure that they will get addicted to you and scream for more. But my own experience has taught…

And 6 principles that will guarantee a wholehearted sex experience. — My journey into mindful mediation started in my early 20s. Combining a few meditation approaches with a life-long habit of self-reflection, my understanding of mindfulness grew and evolved. I explored different types of mindfulness practices and noticed how each affected my life. Some worked better for me than others. But…

Why naming my pussy was such an awesome idea. — Dinah, as portrayed in The Red Tent, is an empowered and inspiring woman who lived in the age of transformation from a matriarchial tribal society to a patriarchal civilization. She knows exactly what she wants, and she’s not deterred by any life circumstances that might jeopardize her vision. She also…